We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful

Titik awal - Bukan Untuk Sesaat

2012-01-19T22:38:00.001+07:00

Titik awal - Berkarya

2012-01-19T22:38:00.000+07:00

the promise

2011-11-30T23:52:00.001+07:00

If you need a friend,
don't look to a stranger,
u know in the end,
I'll always be there.

And when u're in doubt,
and when u're in danger,
Take a look all around,
and I'll be there.

I'm sorry, but I'm just thinking of the right words to say
I know they don't sound the way I planned them to be
But if u'll wait around a while, I'll make u fall for me,
I promise, I promise u I will.

When ur day is through,
and so is ur temper,
u know what to do,
I'm gonna always be there.

Sometimes if I shout,
it's not what's intended.
These words just come out,
with no gripe to bear.

I'm sorry, but I'm just thinking of the right words to say
I know they don't sound the way I planned them to be
And if I had to walk the world, I'd make u fall for me,
I promise, I promise u I will.

call me when u get this ~

2011-11-30T23:42:00.001+07:00

How does it feel being in these arms?
What's it really like to be loved?
I've been alone now, how long?
Have you ever loved the way that i have?
And i have often wondered who,
Who could love you the way i do?
Now i just want you to know, how i'm touched deep in my soul just being with you.
And i need you more each day.
Baby, if you're still awake,
Call me when you get this.

I've got all this poetry now i didn't know then.
I kept inside. guess i had never seen anything beautiful
Till i first saw you asleep at night.
And i have often wondered who,
Who could love you the way i do?
Now i just want you to know,
How i'm touched deep in my soul
Just being with you.
And i need you more each day.
Baby, if you're still awake,
Call me when you get this.

I just wanted to know what it was like, what's it really like to be loved?
These little volcanoes came as a surprise to me.
I never thought i could be this way.
And i have been cautious and i've tried to keep to myself, but who could love you the way i do?
Now i just want you to know, how i'm touched deep in my soul.
Just being with you.
So much more each day,
Baby, if you're still awake,
Call me when you get this

2011-11-11T00:53:00.002+07:00

would u please, just mind ur own life?
i dont really need ur opinions anyway
dont be so pathetic dear
thanks. :)

2011-11-08T03:53:00.002+07:00

what is love without trust

what is love without lust

2011-11-08T03:48:00.002+07:00

the only thing i want is to be able to say everything. every single thing i thought. every single thing i felt.

its not easy to keep holdin' up everything.

i might be blunt, i might be straightforward for some kinda things.

but i cant be that straightforward to some kinda things, like my feeling.

its hurt sometimes. and sometimes i feel really stressful cause of that.

2011-11-07T19:48:00.002+07:00

every time I'm with u, I laugh a lot
such great humor and on top of that damn u're hot
u're perfect in every way every day
more than just a boy, u're by my side through my vendettas
soul mates in this jail of love and we doing life together
i wanna be with u forever till we're buried in the ground
i wanna put u in my pocket and then carry u around
i need u, i can't live without u
u're my everything, boy
don’t need anybody else
it's just me and u against the world
<3<3

2011-11-07T19:45:00.001+07:00

i have no yesterdays, time took them away. tomorrow may not be, but i have today ~

blah

2011-10-24T23:53:00.002+07:00

have u ever think about ur future?
about what kinda job u will get, what kinda life u will live, what kinda girl/boy u will marry, what kinda problems u will trough, and what kinda kids u will have?
truthfully, i've never think about it. i always live my life the way i want to.
but this time, i feel like i should be more mature and think about other things and other people.
well, i've been selfish for a very long time and i never think about others. thats bad, i know.
i should change, and think more.
gotta throw away my lazy-disrespect-careless side.
but u know, talking is easy. and put it in actions is kinda hard to do. well, i just gonna try ~

2011-06-29T00:04:00.002+07:00

everytime i get to see u, i get this feelin'
it's so fuzzy inside, and as soon as i walk away from u
i'm still tasting ur kiss
saving it in my mind

it's not everyday i find a guy that makes me smile all the time
not the way that u do
all the guys i thought i used to love, compared to u, they don't match up
they got nothing on u

u bring me joy and u bring me much pleasure
i could never see myself leaving u ever
ur soft touch is good and it can't get no better
u have got my mind so caught up
i'm drunk off of ur good love

2011-06-28T23:49:00.002+07:00

remorseful for what?
u people have done everything in the world to me.
doesn't that give me equal right?
i can do anything i want to u people, and anytime i want to, because that's what u've done to me.
if u spit in my face and smack me in the mouth and throw me in solitary confinement for nothing

what do u think is gonna happen when i get out of here?

2011-06-27T02:23:00.004+07:00

find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot
who calls you back when u hang up on him
who will lie under the stars and listen to ur heartbeat
or will stay awake just to watch you sleep
wait for the boy who kisses your forehead
who wants to show you off to the world when u are in sweats
who holds ur hand in front of his friends
who thinks u're just as pretty without makeup on
One who is constantly reminding u of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU
The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her..

2011-06-23T01:30:00.001+07:00

and as you grow older, try to stay sixteen all your life.
old men grow bitter, don't let that happen to you

Lush - The Childcatcher

2011-06-23T01:02:00.001+07:00

No matter how bad ur life is, u shouldn't complain.
cos somewhere out there, someones life is way worse

2011-06-23T01:00:00.000+07:00

I'd rather be a FREAK than a FAKE

2011-06-22T18:57:00.002+07:00

whatever u want from me
whoever i try to be
i will never be there
i can never be her in ur society. :')

cara-cara baikan sama pacar ketika berantem

2011-06-22T18:13:00.003+07:00

1. minta maaf
simple, tapi ini memang hal paling pertama yg harus kamu lakuin. tp inget minta maaf nya harus dgn niat. dan jangan pernah berfikir klo abis km minta maaf, pacar km pasti lsg maafin km. karna kadang kala, kamu harus rela minta maaf berkali2, apalagi klo salah kamu cukup parah. dan ingat, minta maaf langsung pada org nya akan lebih menunjukkan niat dan usaha kamu buat baikan. jangan cuma minta maaf di sms, telf, bbm, twitter, fb dll. samperin dan minta maaf lsg.

2. memberi janji
ini hal yg cukup sering d lakukan org2. berjanji untuk tidak mengulang hal yang sama. simple tapi ingat kita harus konsekuen sama janji yang kita buat. jangan abis janji trus kita malah ngelakuin hal yg sama lagi karna hal macam itu justru hanya akan memicu pertengkaran selanjutnya dan akan menjadi bumerang buat kalian sndiri. jadi kita harus dewasa dalam membuat janji dan brtanggung jawab sama janji kita itu

3. kejar terus
klo kamu udh minta maaf, dan janji tapi masih blm d maafin, jangan nyerah gitu aja. kejar terus pacar kamu. samperin dan minta maaf lagi. sms, bbm, telf dll untuk minta maaf dan terus kasih perhatian kamu. meskipun pacar km ga bls, atau marah2, jgn prnah brenti sampe km d maafin. karna d situ lah pacar kamu ngeliat usaha kamu. serba salah memang, tapi klo kamu brenti atau mnghilang pasti pacar km akan berfikir klo km ga peduli lg sama dia. jadi jalan satu2nya adalah sabar.

4. kasih sesuatu
klo masih gagal juga. coba deh kasih surprise kecil buat pacar kamu. bawa sesuatu yg pacar kamu suka trus samperin ke rumah nya atau kemana pun dia berada. ga perlu brharap km lsg d maafin, cukup kamu kasih hadiah kecil km itu, bilang maaf, janji dan udah. jangan pernah maksa. itu yang paling penting. yakin deh pacar kamu pasti akan sedikit terharu sama usaha kamu yg satu ini dan moodnya pasti akan membaik. ;)

5. sabar
klo masih belom berhasil juga, lakukan 4poin di atas berulang-ulang sampai pacar kamu maafin kamu. jangan pernah nyerah dan tunjukkin niat dan usaha kamu buat baikan. tunjukkin klo km bner2 ga akan ngulang kesalahan km lagi dan kamu bner2 peduli dan sayang sama dia. coba tanya dan minta saran sama tmen2 pacar kamu ttg dia supaya km juga bisa mngira-ngira cara2 apalagi yg harus kamu lakuin. jadi ya, sabar dan terus usaha. itu yang penting!

yaaaa. sekian post dari saya. semoga bermanfaat ya. see u in my next post! :*

hal-hal yang tidak patut dibicarakan dgn pacar

2011-06-19T03:27:00.003+07:00

1. mantan
kadang, atau mungkin pasti, ada saat di mana pacar kita menanyakan ttg mantan kita. yang kita perlukan adalah menjawab pertanyaan itu se simple mungkin. jangan pernah bicara detail ttg mantan kita karena somehow itu bisa bikin pacar kita bt atau kesal atau bahkan bisa pula merasa tersaingi atau merasa "kurang"

2. mantan kecengan, gebetan atau PDKTan
ini big NO. jangan pernah bicarakan ttg ini sama pacar kita. karena secara tidak langsung mereka adalah saingan terbesar dari pacar kamu. dan bila kamu membicarakan ttg mereka, ada kemungkinan pacar kamu akan berfikir klo kamu masih suka sama si kecengan/gebetan/pdkt an kamu dulu itu. dan yang akan terjadi adalah pacar kamu akan cemburu buta.

3. perbedaan agama, umur, suku, budaya dan sejenisnya
memang hal ini perlu untuk dibicarakan. tapi ingat, hal-hal seperti ini harus dibicarakan di waktu yang tepat. jangan pernah membicarakan hal-hal semacam ini ketika anda sedang bersenang-senang, bermain dgn teman2, bersantai atau waktu2 indah. karena somehow hal-hal sensitif macam ini bisa sangat merusak mood pasangan anda. jadi, bila ingin membicarakan hal semacam ini harus melihat situasi dan kondisi, misalnya, ketika anda memang sedang dalam pembicaraan serius mengenai hubungan anda, atau ketika anda sedang membicarakan masa depan. jadi, hati-hati.

4. kekurangan
jadilah lebih peka. jangan pernah membicarakan kekurangan dr pasangan kamu secara gamblang. bila ingin memberitahu, katakanlah sehalus mungkin. misalnya, pacar anda bau badan. jangan pernah bilang "sayang, kamu bau deh" karena jelas, itu akan menyakiti hati pasangan anda. apalagi bila anda bicara di depan teman2 anda atau dia. itu pasti akan menyakitkan dan memalukan. coba bicara ketika anda benar2 sedang berdua, dan katakan dengan bahasa sehalus mungkin. misalnya "sayang, kamu pasti bakal lebih cantik klo pake parfum ini" atau "sayang, kamu mandi gih biar tambah ganteng/cantik. jangan lupa pake deodorant dan parfum ya biar wangii" tentu akan lebih enak didengar dan tentunya tidak membuat pacar anda malu.

5. masalah berdua di depan org
bila kalian lagi berantem, jangan pernah membicarakan masalah kalian di depan org banyak. karena itu hanya akan membuat kalian tambah berantem. coba di obrolinnya berdua aja. selain memalukan, membicarakan masalah brdua d depan org/social network atau apapun yg brhubungan dgn bnyk org akan memungkinkan banyaknya pendapat org2 yg tidak berkepentingan yang malah akan membuat masalah mnjadi runyam. ini kan masalah berdua, masa mau di jadiin masalah banyak org?

6. org lain yg menurut kamu lebih dr pacar kamu
please, peka! inget. jaga perasaan pacar kamu. jangan dengan bodohnya bilang "si A cantik banget ya rambutnya bagus badannya sexy blablablabla" atau "si B ganteng bgt deh. badannya sixpack, baik, pinter blablabla" hal-hal macam itu, meskipun sepele, akan membuat pacar kamu jd minder. dia akan jd merasa kekurangan.

itu semua sebenarnya hanya poin-poin penting nya aja. sisanya ya kesadaran masing2 saja lah ya. yang harus di ingta itu hanya PEKA. jaga perasaan pasangan kamu. dan JUJUR. karena apapun yg kamu katakan, sebaik apapun, bila ada kebohongan di dalamnya hanya akan menjadi sampah. kejujuran selalu lebih baik. hanya cara pengucapannya saja yg perlu diperhatikan. bila kejujuran yg menyenangkan sih silahkan di ucapkan dengan gamblang, tapi bila kejujuran yg menyakitkan, ucapkan lah se halus mungkin.

sekian dari saya. semoga bermanfaat. see u in my next post! :*

30 hal yg bisa bikin cw senyum...:)

2010-01-20T00:03:00.004+07:00

1. Don't hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out.

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if it's just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up.

5. Wrestle with her.

6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.

7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"..and not just at night after you've already been out with other girls.

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.

13. Make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then tell her.

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends.

21. Kiss her in the rain.

22. If your listening to music, let her listen too.

23. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it's simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it's the thought that counts.

24. When she gives you a present on your birthday, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)

25. Girl don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night, but it's nice for them to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

26. Give her what she wants

27. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

28. Tell her she's beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.

29. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girlfriend all the time

30. If u care about her...SHOW it!

wanita

2010-01-07T14:30:00.003+07:00

"sebuah cerita pada hari penciptaan wanita"

Malaikat bertanya ke pada Tuhan, "apakah keistimewaan dari ciptaanMu ini?"
dan Tuhan menjawab, "ada banyak keistimewaan yang dimiliki oleh ciptaanKu ini"
"di balik kelembutannya, dia memiliki kekuatan yang begitu besar"
"tutur katanya merupakan kebenaran"
"senyumannya adalah semangat bagi orang yang dicintainya"
"pelukan dan ciumannya dapat memberikan kehangatan bagi anak-anaknya"
"ia tersenyum bila melihat temannya tertawa"
"ia terharu bila melihat anaknya menjadi juara"
"ia menangis bila melihat kesengsaraan"
"ia mampu tersenyum dibalik kesedihannya"
"ia sangat gembira melihat kelahiran"
"ia sangat sedih melihat kematian"
"tetesan air mata nya dapat membawa kedamaian"
"tapi ia selalu lupa akan satu hal"
Malaikat pun bertanya, "apa itu Tuhan?"
dan Tuhan menjawab, "ia selalu lupa bahwa ia sangatlah berharga"

jika seorang wanita menangis dihadapanmu, itu berarti dia tidak dapat menahannya lagi..
Jika kau memegang tangannya saat dia menangis, dia akan tinggal bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu..
Jika kau membiarkannya pergi, dia tidak akan kembali menjadi dirinya yg dulu, slamanya!
Seorang wanita tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, kecuali di depan orang yang sangat dia sayangi, dia akan menjadi lemah!
Seorang wanita tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, hanya jika dia sgt menyayangimu.Dia akan menurunkan rasa egonya..

Hey lelaki!
jika seorang wanita pernah menangis karenamu, tolong pegang tangannya dengan penuh pengertian..
Karena dia adalah orang yg akan tetap bersamamu sepanjang hdpmu..
jika seorang wanita menangis karenamu, tolong jangan menyia-nyiakannya...
Mungkin, karena keputusanmu, kau merusak kehidupannya...
Saat dia menangis di depanmu, saat dia menangis karenamu...
Lihatlah jauh ke dalam matanya...
dapatkan kau lihat dan rasakan sakit yang ia rasakan karenamu?!

Hey lelaki!
jangan pernah kalian menganggap rendah wanita...
jangan pernah menganggap diri kalian lebih dari seorang wanita..
tidak kah kalian ingat?!
orang yang melahirkan mu adalah wanita...
orang yang menjaga mu, mengajarkan mu, mengurus mu, dan menyayangimu hingga kini adalah wanita...
dan ingatlah bahwa orang yang akan menemanimu hingga akhir hayat adalah seorang wanita....
bila kalian tidak menghargai wanita....kalian tidak akan bisa menghargai diri kalian sendiri... dan percayalah, tidak akan ada satu orangpun yang akan menghargai kalian... :)

happy birthday daddy

2009-11-07T10:45:00.002+07:00

today...november 7th...
today is my daddy birthday!
happy birthday daddy..
wishing u all d best!
thanks for being the best dad on earth!
i love u daddy! cupscups..:)

2009-10-25T16:52:00.004+07:00

I can't do well when I think you're gonna leave me but I know I try..

Are you gonna leave me now?!

Cant you be believing now?!

Empire Of The Sun - We Are The People

been a long timee

2009-10-24T11:15:00.007+07:00

waw....it's been a long time...udah lama bgt ya sy ga nulis blog...
saya br aja pulang 2hari yg lalu dr china dan jepang...
seru...rame..keren....oke bgt deh...
china sih mirip" lah ama indonesia....tp jepang..oh what a beautiful country....org" nya lucu"....smuanya bersih and so digital...gila loh wc aja isinya tombol smua..hahhaa...
kembali ke indonesia dan menyadari klo indonesia masiih sangaat jauh untuk menjadi seperti jepang! tp ya sudahlah...mncoba tetap bangga pada negara sndiri...;p
pulang jam 1 pagi, lsg ke kampus jam 9 pagi...ah saya memang mahasiswi yg baik..heheh..
kangen"an ama tmen"....
dan hari itu trjadi lah photo session dadakan yg d dasari oleh keisengan dan ketidak ada kerjaan kita..hahhaha..
ini beberapa hasil photo yg sy suka bgt :

Death Cab For Cutie - Photobooth

:D

2009-10-06T02:59:00.000+07:00

i'm happy..
thank u so much! :)

:)

2009-09-25T13:19:00.001+07:00

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not

it's true..:D

2009-09-17T19:43:00.005+07:00

there is no point in standing in the past cause it’s over and done...:)

stop it!

2009-09-03T22:38:00.003+07:00

oke so this is not funny anymore....i hate it...stop it please...i hate when u said that..that's annoying...
we're cool now aite?! so dont make me hate u even more..rrrrrrrrr
leave me alone!! please please leave me alone..
i'll be really happy without u in my life..

Belle and Sebastian - Get Me Away From Here, I'm Dying

i hate u

2009-09-03T03:11:00.003+07:00

i hate u! i really do! and i swear i will never forgive u..
get ur own life bastard..dun ever try to bother me again.. sigh.

Michael Jackson - Leave Me Alone

thinking bout u

2009-08-31T18:26:00.002+07:00

Over the rooftops a plane in the sky
Beat of a bass drum cars passing me by
Under a bridge dark then back into light
A river of raincoats and a forest of faces
Still for a moment then red into green
Slow shuffling shoes whisper sight unseen
Row upon row of houses return an empty stare
Let the daydream for a little while longer

Ah.. yeah...
Hope Ill never wake
When Im thinking about you
(yeah) hope Ill never wake
Cos now Im thinking about you

Two-minute hailstorm then melts into rain
(oh) sing me a rainbow its sunny again
Swallows overhead while the traffic snarls below
Could I (could I) keep dreaming for a little while longer

Hope Ill never wake
When Im thinking about you
So that you know - I never want to wake
Cos now Im thinking about you

When youre searching your soul
When youre searching for pleasure
How often, pain is all you find
But when youre coasting along and nobodys trying too hard
You can turn around and like where you are

(yeah and) I hope I never wake
When Im thinking about you
And I close my eyes (dear)
Now Ill never never wake
Why should I stop thinking about you

.........

sigh..hope i'll never ever wake..

The Sundays - When I'm Thinking About You

that's why...

2009-08-21T17:09:00.003+07:00

that's why..that's why...that's why...
hahhahahhahahhahahhahhahha....

sedih

2009-07-13T01:46:00.003+07:00

sedih sedih sedih..
itu doang yg saya bisa bilang...
nangis ampe puas...
pingin kabur aja rasanya..:((

Michael Jackson - You Are Not Alone

jatuh cinta lagi...

2009-07-09T02:24:00.002+07:00

ah Ed Macfarlane...i ♥ u..

Jatuh cinta di sini bukan berarti saya jatuh cinta bneran...
saya cuma jatuh cinta sama orang ini nih...vocalist dari Friendly Fires yang bernama Ed Macfarlane..
OMG..he's so cute....lucu to the max deh ini sih...:p

Friendly Fires - Jump In The Pool
Friendly Fires - Paris (Aeroplane remix)